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Essays

Personal stories about parenting, health, pop culture and more.

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For 23 years, I was Caroline. Here’s why I reclaimed my Chinese birth name.

More people are rejecting ‘English-centric’ naming standards — and sometimes paying a price.

How running and an 80/20 approach helped me keep 60 pounds off for 10 years

As I prepared to run the Boston Marathon, I thought about how far I’d come in 10 years. 
Split photo of yosef drinking a beer before he got into running next to yosef running past the finish line of a race
Split photo of yosef drinking a beer before he got into running next to yosef running past the finish line of a race

How I chose my kids' Indian names so my husband could pronounce them

The baby name decision can be a delicate art for multi-cultural families.

Our son died by suicide 2 years ago. We’re still waiting for him at the dinner table

Jack was 17 and away at school when he took his own life after being bullied.
Jack Reid, who died by suicide two years ago, and his parents Elizabeth and Bill Reid.
Jack Reid, who died by suicide two years ago, and his parents Elizabeth and Bill Reid.

I shouldn't have to prove anything about my natural hair. Neither should Beyoncé

When you are a Black woman, the assumption is that your natural hair could never be that long — or that healthy.
Beyonce
Beyonce

I’m no good at small talk. So I went on a mission to get better at it

“What’s your recurring nightmare?” is apparently not a great way to start a conversation. 
collage of random mouths talking on a lined background
collage of random mouths talking on a lined background

My love letter to Boston Market as fans like me worry it’ll close for good

Rotisserie chicken, you’ll forever have a warm place in my heart.
photo collage of boston market sign with a "closed" sign pin to it
photo collage of boston market sign with a "closed" sign pin to it

As an Arab woman in my 20s, making warak anab felt like a rite of passage

The labor the dish requires is a reflection of Arab culture and how we tend to each other.

I went through fertility treatments for 10 years, and I'd do it all over again

My doctor told me in three decades of practice, he had never seen a case like mine.
collage of trash can holding old calendars, pregnancy tests, and paper balls
collage of trash can holding old calendars, pregnancy tests, and paper balls

I did my own makeup on my wedding day. My friends thought I was crazy

My Indian wedding was bright and bold in many ways — but when it came to my makeup, I wanted to keep it simple. 
Sachin Soni
Sachin Soni

IVF ruined my life. Here’s what I wish I had known

Three years, five egg retrievals, 10 embryo transfers, 19 embryos and $165,000 later, and I’m exactly where I started. Only, broke and broken.
collage of Kaitlyn Abdou with ultrasound and flower on light yellow
collage of Kaitlyn Abdou with ultrasound and flower on light yellow